Hi, my name is Shweta (name changed for obvious reasons) and I have been encouraged to write to you with the hope that you shall publish it on your reputed website. Having gone through almost all the articles and the suggestions and advices the writers have been receiving on their respective problems, I feel that I shall too receive an answer that is going to shape the course of my life and the future of those concerned. I sincerely hope that you understand the predicament that I am in and offer your valuable advises. You may not understand fully well the situation I am in but believe me when I say that this problem of mine is making me suicidal, not that I intend to do away with my life anytime soon though. Life has been too harsh for me and I wish to change that once and for all.
I am in love with a married man and we’ve been seeing each other for almost 7 months now. He’s been married for almost 2 years. I love him so much and I know without any doubt that he loves me too. He keeps telling me how much he loves me but he can’t just leave his wife right away for they have a lovely son who just turned one. We talked this over and over and he is even willing to leave his family for me but has asked me give him some time so that he can make arrangements. I know its wrong to get involved with a married man because we’ll be hurting and cheating his wife. I want this relationship to stop but I always end up crying in the middle of the night… missing him terribly… longing to be with him.
I’m 22 years old and he’s 8 years older than me. I love him so much that I would do anything, just anything to please him. We’ve shared intimate moments together, and I just can’t really forget him that easily though I have been trying my best to do so. I am also aware of me being the ‘other woman’ who is bound to break a ‘home’ if I carry on with this relationship but what can one do when the heart is stronger than the head. I have tried numerous ways to get rid of his thoughts but unfortunately have not been successful. I now turn to you…whoever is reading it to seriously give it a thought and advise me the next step that I ought to take. Please, Please, I need it badly. I would appreciate if you put yourself into my shoes and genuinely tell me what to do. Thank you in advance and god bless!